Deep down, we all need to feel that we are important, unique, and special. This can be accomplished in many ways. Some people get it by becoming high achievers, others feel significance by the sixth basic need of contribution. Some people find significance by putting others down, or bullying them because it makes them feel like they are better or have power.
Others become eccentric in ways we can’t even imagine and most of us don’t want to! Proving that if we strive for too much significance, we end up totally violating the next need.